I swear I didn’t forget V-Day. Actually, I had a menu for two that I tested several times but never fell in love with enough to post for you guys. I refuse to recommend anything I don’t love, and this menu is still coming together. It also just kind of turned into Valentine’s Week for me because I was at home with my mama and we did lots of Valentiney things, and the actual Day got away from me.
I’ve never totally understood why people dislike Valentine’s Day. I do understand feeling alone and sad – of course – but when I was growing up Valentine’s was a more generalized holiday on which you celebrate loving everyone in your life. Looking back now, that was a gift. My mom would always make a special Valentine’s lunch or dinner for our family and we gave gifts to each other, and everyone in my class at school gave cards to each other. I always felt incredibly loved and loving on Valentine’s Day, and it wasn’t until I got to college that I learned that if you didn’t have a significant other on the day, you were supposed to feel forlorn and unlovable.
Well, NO. Quite frankly.
It’s beautiful that there’s an entire day dedicated to love! What a transcendent thing to focus on in our culture. I get to tell my dear friends how much I appreciate them for their undying support, get to tell my parents how much I love them, get to tell my sister how special she is to me. Yes, we should do that all the time. But we don’t.
I really appreciate having a day when we are all reminded to remember the love that surrounds us, romantic or not. And yes, if you have a sweetheart, it makes for a wonderful holiday. But without one is just as good.
I was lucky enough to happen across this beautiful, gorgeous, delicately thoughtful post on the same theme of love taking all forms on Tea & Cookies. It’s worth a read.
And after reading, I absolutely had to make Tea & Cookies’ Valentiney cookies on Valentine’s Day to celebrate it and love.
I gave them to people I care about and to some people I barely know. Just because.
Please continue for the recipe.